I was discussing with a friend about the impact of our actions on posterity. If you are a godly woman, happily married, you owe it to yourself, love for Christ and posterity to keep your home and make sure you do not stir up trouble in another woman's home. If a man tells you after X# of children you are still the best in the West, know it is sheer flattery. If you could not marry an individual when you were single, what business do you have befriending him as a married woman? If you give in to his pressure or any kind of pressure and have an affair, you are putting gravel in your mouth and guess what? The taste will bruise your palate.
Some relationships build us up, enhance the good things in us while some are out to destroy our wonderfully planned destiny. Regardless of how much fun, adventure and flesh gratifying it appears, flee all appearance and similitude of evil. An affair can at the best provide temporary pleasure and possession but on the long run, you and your posterity will pay dearly for it. You may reap temporary benefits from having an affair but when you arrive at a point you never imagined you would ever attain, how do you then right this wrong against yourself? The seemingly big items that are making you run after someone else's husband will become common place and available in your life, just maybe you then become serious in your relationship with Christ, how then will you redeem your testimony?
"All things are lawful but not all things are expedient, all things are lawful but I will not be mastered by any". 1 Cor.6 12 KJV
If another woman's husband is flirting dangerously with you, make sure you spell it in clear terms that you are not interested in an affair, make sure you severe any link with what will get you and your family into a mess. Everything we do in life is a seed, you will harvest it not too far from now. Some girls/women do not have any intention of marrying a man, they just want to have an affair, an affair is a dark, secretive phenomenon that ruins home.
If you are single today and dating other people's husband, a day might come when you meet the right man and you eventually settle down into a home, be careful lest your harvest come at that time, you can not be a lady forever...there will always be younger, prettier girls who will catch your husband's attention, they too will not marry him they will only take away your peace and marital bliss, giving you a dose of your own medication. Girls or women who have an affair are like those who go down to the stream to fetch water, they do not necessarily want to drink the water they just want to stir it up and make it undrinkable for others.
Proverbs 5:15 "Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well".
Flirting or having an affair with someone else's husband will only bring you shame and embarrassment, decency suggests that you be satisfied with your own spouse or wait for your own man.
Shalom!
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