Singles - The Horse & The Cart

On Pre marital sex....

The horse drives the cart, if the cart decides to jump ahead, there is no doubt that things will fall apart...my single folks, as long as you belong to God, there is a how of doing things in His kingdom.

When you engage in pre marital sex all in the name of checking your compatibility meter,you lose your ability to get things right. Your courtship days should be spent building up yourselves spiritually, intellectually, setting goals, learning about each others strengths, weaknesses, family dynamics and such things that your eyes will become open to after you are back from the highs of sex and you already sign the dotted line. Pre marital sex fast forward your emotions in a direction that causes you to lose control. 

When you keep yourself, you have so much to look forward to and you also keep the word of God. As a man, understand that you can be easily stimulated by the things you see, therefore, make a covenant with your eyes not to look at a maid lustfully. As a lady, dress how you want to be addressed, it is not fashionable to expose your comely parts.

Watch the kind of entertainment you enjoy together, movies are good but if you watch sexually explicit movies, you set the stage for a fire that is hard to quench. Once you fall into the act of fornication, you will always miss it at that point. Your conscience becomes hardened after a while, you convince yourself, "we plan to get married".

Sex is good, but for Christians, it is approved within the confines of marriage. Do not steal what rightfully belongs to you before time else, you may not enjoy it fully when the time Is right. Do you know that there are a lot of married people who have a corrupted idea about sex? Some of them put their carts before the horse.

If you have any question inbox me please or send your question to possibilitiesdivine@gmail.com.

God has raised us up for our generation, you do not have to make the same mistake others have made, you can learn from the mistake of others.

Blessings!