Single & Sizzling

Single and Sizzling!

The taste of a dish comes out when you allow it to sizzle. Yes, it is cooked but simmering and sizzling, slow cooking brings out the savory taste of most dishes. So, how are you doing all my single people? Food is food but there is more satisfaction when your food has been cooked with patience and your taste buds appreciate the effort. Ok, am not having a cooking class...

Patience is a virtue, in today's microwave mentality, not too many people want to be patient. I have also discovered that there is a price to pay when you do not exercise patience in choosing your life partner. So, how do you maintain sanity when you invitation cards start pouring in during summer?

*You rejoice with those who are rejoicing
*You tell yourself it will soon be your turn because that is what God has said. *Then you focus on God, tell Him to perfect all that concerns you. I have never seen Him fail.

Do not toy with what you will not eat, do not involve yourself with a guy or girl to while away time, time is life. Invest positively in yourself, mix with the right crowd, birds of the same feather flock together....if you go to the club to catch fun, you are likely to catch someone like you there. Attitude makes a lot of difference as little as it is.

You can not coerce someone to love you, if you like someone and they do not seem to be interested in you, get the hint, do not make yourself a nuisance. Gentlemen do not harass, ladies who will become queens do not fight over the heart of a man. If a brother can not make up his mind and you have to fight another sister over him, step away from the scene. It will get uglier after marriage. If a lady can not make up her mind because she has so many suitors, why would you join the queue? Once you are sure of who God has made you and what He is saying to you, ensure you find your gold, otherwise you will always be unsure of where her heart belongs after she's had children for you.
The right person who will treasure you will come along.

Those who hastily get into the wrong relationship will patiently endure the challenges therein. I leave you with the ageless word to ponder on...

 Isaiah 28:16
"Therefore thus saith the Lord God, Behold, I lay in Zion for a foundation a stone, a tried stone, a sure foundation: he that believeth shall not make haste"


If you fail to wait for the right person to come, you will wait for the person you choose to get it right. -- Omo Ishow